Sarah Palin and the Mommy Wars

I usually steer clear of political conversations, but this really bothers me. First let me say, I am not a Palin supporter. She seems very nice, and personable, and I'm sure she's a good leader, but our political views are vastly different.

I have been reading commentary from people (including mothers) who think she should stay home with her kids. They think running for such a high office is inappropriate for a mother "in her situation." I 'm appalled by that sentiment. I happen to be a sahm. I became a sahm because it was what was best for my family. I in no way think I am a better mother than someone who works outside of the home, either out of necessity, or choice.

I don't understand this type of judgemental behavior. I never have. Why do we, as women, feel the need to tear each other down? What business is it of mine, if somebody else has a career, and works 80 hours a week? Why can't women be supportive of each other for their choices?

Why shouldn't Sarah Palin run for office? I don't think it would be such a bad thing for her children (her daughters especially) to see that they can reach for the stars, even in a traditionally male arena. Yes, she has a special needs infant. So do lots of other women who return to work. And what about Mr. Palin? Is he incapable of caring for his children? There are lots of stay at home dads in this country who would shout a resounding "NO!"

Then, of course, there's the issue of the pregnant 17 year old daughter. Big whoop. It happens, even in the best families. It doesn't make Sarah Palin a failure as a mother. It doesn't mean her family has no moral values. It means she has a teenager who made a bad choice, like many teenagers.